Selfish giving?
Just because someone started a great cause and dedicated his/her life to something that serves others, it doesn’t mean this person is selfless. In fact, I think people who live like that are some of the most selfish people.
The reason why giving, sharing and caring feels great is because we see the connection we have with others. It’s easier to see this connection with our own family and friends. It makes us feel good when we feel we can do something for people we love. If it was not the case, our world would be full of homeless children!
So, it’s simply that amongst the most rewarding things we can do in life is to give. And if we could dedicate our life to doing that everyday, we can say we are living life of ultimate pleasure. You wouldn’t do that if you’re not selfish.
But recognising the fact that we are merely doing all those things just for our own sake-that we are actually very selfish, is not so easy. I said to my son this morning, “Say thank you!” after I helped him put his shoes on. Then suddenly I realised that I just spoiled my own pleasure.
Category: Giving 6 comments »
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